How to Actually Love the Holidays Again

Dreading the holidays? Here's the secret to loving the season again!

Are you ready to finally love the holidays again?

Imagine, feeling calm and relaxed, doing only the things you want to do and spending time with only the people you love.

What will it feel like when your heart is full and happy, and you're celebrating all that you have accomplished this year?

Can you imagine waking up every day this season, actually excited because, for once, you're doing things on your own terms and loving it?

How confident will you feel this season, knowing that you deserve to be happy this holiday season and are doing something about it?

If you're ready, enroll now!

What if you could learn how to do the following, just in time for the holiday season?

  • Discover the REAL reason you feel like crap during the holiday season so that you can proactively give it the boot before it ruins another Christmas for you.
  • Learn the nasty secret that nobody tells you about this time of year so that you finally let go of all the stress and baggage that has messed with your holiday before. It stops now.
  • Uncover the proven system for RECLAIMING the holidays for yourself so that you will look forward to celebrating this year, and for years to come.

The holidays can be tough when you are recovering from divorce. I know how awful it can feel because I've been there, too. I've sat alone on Christmas Eve as a divorced woman, a glass of wine and box of tissues on hand, trying hard not to think about the Christmas from years ago when my family was together and we were actually happy.

You deserve better than that. You deserve to be happy this holiday season and this course will show you how.

So, what will it be this holiday season? Will you choose the happiness you deserve?

Or, will you choose to go through the motions like you have every other holiday season? You know what I'm talking about--when you are stressed and miserable but unsure of what to do about it, just like every other year.

Will you choose to not do anything and let the divorce drama continue to hold your holidays hostage? Will you continue to get in spats with family members, ex-spouses, and feel like you're suffering from a nervous breakdown?

Or, will you recognize that you deserve better than that and you invest in yourself because you're worth it?

So, are you ready to love the holidays again?

If the answer is yes, ENROLL NOW for only $149!

I can't wait to share this course with you because I know that it's a chance for you to finally do something for yourself and take care of yourself, especially during this crazy holiday season. But purchasing the course is only for a limited time.

At Surviving your Split, you know that I have dedicated my life to helping readers just like you learn how to get your confidence back. I have survived the devastation of divorce just like you, but I have also seen the resilience that you have when it comes to starting over. You deserve to live for yourself and I know how to help you get there. I am your champion and advocate and cannot wait to show you how to take your life back. And this season, it starts with you!

So, are you ready to invest in yourself so you can have a holiday that you'll actually love?

I'm excited to share this course with you because of all the amazing things you will get out of it. Those gifts, just in time for the holidays, include:

  • The best-kept secrets for getting rid of the negativity (loneliness, sadness, grief, and anger) you feel this time of year, especially since the end of your marriage
  • A proven system that brings you joy so you can celebrate the season on your own terms...with no drama
  • My favorite methods for making sure you will stick to your holiday goals. I've tested them for over five years as I learned to recover from my own divorce and know they will work for you, too! :)

So, when signing up for the holiday course, the big thing readers want to know is, "Who should join? Is this course right for me?"

Let's discuss that for a second. You know I care about you and every reader of the Surviving Your Split community. I would not want you to buy something that is not a good match for you right now. So let's take a look at some ways you'll know if you should buy or not.

"How to Actually Love the Holidays Again" is right for you if...

  • You've had a difficult time celebrating the holidays since your divorce
  • The holidays are a time that makes you feel sad. Or stressed out
  • You want to love the holidays again but are not sure how
  • You're tired of the usual drama and BS from November-January
  • You want the holidays to be different for you this year
  • Your happiness is worth the time and small investment of the course.

On the flip side, this course may not be for you if...

  • Your holidays are already great and you don't dread them. Lucky!!! :)
  • You're okay with being uncomfortable and sad and stressed this holiday season
  • You want a quick and easy fix
  • You can't dedicate the time for yourself to work on the course
  • Too easy, right? If you feel the course is right for you, then BUY NOW. Remember that the course closes soon.


Just to recap, "How to Actually Love the Holidays Again" is a self-paced, online course that shows you how to get rid of all the past holiday drama and BS and teach you how to take the holidays back on your own terms after divorce.

But I get it--you may be hesitant to try something new or invest in yourself, although you totally deserve to be happy, especially during the holidays.

Being hesitant is totally normal because we are worried about risk. So today, I want to address some of the concerns that readers have when buying the holiday course.

Will this product work for me?

Absolutely! I have pulled together the best information culled from my years as a divorce coach and blogger to design this course for you. Hundreds of hours of research and client interviews have been combined to make this course not only effective, but also fun so that you can get back to actually loving the holidays.

Will I get ripped off?

Hell no! As a subscriber to Surviving Your Split, you know first-hand how the free material in the newsletters has helped you take your life back after divorce. You deserve to be happy and deserve to have an awesome holiday season. And by investing in yourself and purchasing the course, I know you'll get there. In fact, I am so excited that you're taking this course that if for some reason you're not satisfied, your money will be 100% refunded.

Will I waste my time?

No way! But I'm not gonna lie--to get the maximum results of "How to Actually Love the Holidays Again," you are going to need to carve out time for yourself to listen to the modules and go through the exercises and be mindful about them. Your holiday happiness is worth it. But since the content is at your own pace, you can do when it suits your schedule.

Why should I invest in this course?

Paying $149 for this course means you will learn from a divorce master. As a CDC Certified Divorce Coach® I am a professional who knows that your recovery is my top priority. But you don't have to take my word for it. My work has been featured in some of your favorite places--the Huffington Post, Sixty and Me, Better After 50, Midlife Boulevard, and The Good Men Project--sites that you trust and turn to for information for living your best life.

And as a thank you, receive exclusive access to the Private Holiday Support Group.

Once you enroll in the course, you’ll receive an email invitation to join our private Facebook group where you will meet other readers of the Surviving Your Split, discover new daily secrets for navigating through the season while dealing with divorce, and be a part of a great online community that can help each other get through the season.

Imagine having a both a self-paced course AND support system during the holidays, made up of people who totally get you because they’re going through the same thing.

How comforting will it feel to have other folks to lean on, vent with, and share ideas with so that you’re no longer feeling lonely and stressed?

So, if you're ready to make this holiday season one you'll actually love, BUY NOW.

Now, I know it's easy to say, "you know what, I'm gonna see what my other options are. I've done the same thing when wondering if I should buy something." And I like a reader who's smart enough to examine their options. Here's what I've seen besides this course.

Alternative #1: Just Go Online and Read Holiday Tips

Look, I've read those exact same articles. You know--the ones that are like, "3 Ways to Have the Best Holiday Season Ever" and "5 Ways to Kick the Holiday Blues." Nothing against them, but what drives me crazy is all they seem to do is just give you these very surface-level tips and they don't dig deep---they don't examine the psychology of why and how we act a certain way. And they will not help you reframe your way of thinking or teach you how to put in systems for yourself that will actually work and hold you accountable. And they certainly do not provide you with the support that Surviving Your Split will.

Alternative #2: Do Nothing and Just Hope for the Best

If you're super-satisfied with your holidays, that's great. But if you are struggling to recover after divorce and are not sure how to get through this holiday season, not doing anything about it will keep you in a state of struggling and sadness. You deserve better than that and this course will teach you how. There's no need to just push through like you have every other year. Now is the time to take action and this course will show you how.

Alternative #3: Reach out to someone to help you through the holidays

There's nothing wrong with reaching out to a divorce coach or a therapist to help you deal with the holiday season. But there's the thing: during the holiday season, it comes down to time and money. Rates to talk to a professional are in the range of $180-$300 an hour. And getting that appointment depends on their availability, which may be few and far between due to them going on vacation or already having clients booked. That's harsh. But with this self-guided course and support when you need it, you don't need to worry about the steep $300 an hour price tag, and you can learn how to take your holidays back from the comfort of your own home, on your own schedule.

So, if you're ready to see just how great the holidays can be, the course is now open!!

But don't wait too long...it closes soon.

What will if feel like to finally celebrate this holiday season again, peaceful, calm, and with the happiness you deserve?

Your Instructor

Martha Bodyfelt
Martha Bodyfelt

Martha Bodyfelt is a CDC Certified Divorce Coach® who specializes in working with divorcees who are struggling to move on with their lives post-divorce. Martha helps her clients break through their pain and heartache, conquer their post-divorce anxiety, and teaches them to regain their confidence so they can get their lives back.

Frequently Asked Questions

When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.

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