Love the Holidays Again

How Confident Women Celebrate the Holidays


You know what’s coming.

You walk in to the grocery store to grab a couple of things before dinner, and you see it.

Holiday decorations. Holiday cards. Holiday treats.

Velvet stockings, sparkly tinsel, shiny ornaments, candy canes, and happy families.

Great, just freaking great. The stores are pushing visions of holiday perfection and happy couples when all you want to do is hide under the covers until January 2nd. As if starting over after divorce wasn’t hard enough, this time of year makes everything even shittier.

If you’re dreading the holidays, you’re not alone!

Status updates on social media of perfect meals, Martha Stewart decorations, and posts from your friend saying how “blessed” she is with her husband of 30 years is enough to make you want to set fire to the next f*cking holiday display you see.

You see a happy couple walking hand in hand, and you feel like shit, because it makes you think you’re the last single person in the world and that nobody will ever love you enough to spend Christmas with you again.

The holiday BS may get you thinking, “What’s the point? Maybe I’ll never be happy again, and I’ll just die alone.”

But I’m here to tell you to knock that negativity off, because this year can be different.

Imagine coasting through season, enjoying the holiday cheer, not resenting it. Celebrating your newly-single status, not grieving it. What would it be like when you can actually look forward to the season like you did when you were a child, instead of being consumed with that sadness you just can’t shake?

If you want some extra help getting through the holidays this year, you have come to the right place!

This year, I have created something for the most dedicated SYS readers to help you get the holiday season you want.

Love the Holidays Again is the only thing you’ll need to your holiday loneliness, overcome your stress, and be ready for 2020 with confidence...not dread or sadness.

Even if you’re no longer with your husband.

Even if you dread coming home to an empty cold house.

Even if money’s tight since the divorce.

Even if you have terrible memories of past holidays.

Reserve your spot before November 22nd and receive exclusive access to the Course AND your own private one-one-one holiday strategy session.

Your Free One-on-One Holiday Strategy Session (a $297 value)

During this 30-minute one-on-one strategy session, we will:

•Work together to identify your holiday loneliness, stress, and sadness triggers

•Devise the fail-proof systems to neutralize those triggers

•Reframe the holiday loneliness and negativity into confidence and excitement

•Formulate your Holiday Recovery Action plan so you’ll be unstoppable this season, with the confidence you deserve.

Once you enroll, you’ll get exclusive access to your own private holiday coach where you’ll get real-time support that all season long that will leave you energized and excited, not lonely and depressed.

Imagine having an amazing course AND support system during the holidays...on your schedule!

How comforting will it feel to have other folks to lean on, vent with, and share ideas with so that you’re no longer feel like you’re the last single person on earth?

But the doors close on November 22nd. Register now to this the season you'll love.


A sneak peak inside the holiday recovery course!

I remember the first few holidays seasons after my divorce being terrible. I felt lonely not being with my husband, but I felt sad and pathetic being around family members and friends, who, despite their good intentions, just really annoyed the hell out of me---like they were patronizing me and treating me like a child, or they would would be all weird and judgemental.

It took much longer than it should have to quit feeling like shit around the holidays. But after years of setting boundaries, putting myself first for a change, and rethinking everything I knew about the holidays, I was finally able to love the season again.

So today, I wanted to show you the main sections of Love the Holidays Again. I think you'll see something you like.

If even one section grabs your attention...join the course.

Part One: There’s nothing wrong with you. This is the real reason why the holidays suck. Inside you’ll learn...

  • The secret reasons why this time of year sucks that nobody ever told you
  • The big lie we tell ourselves about the holidays...and how it’s killing us
  • What thriving divorced women do to banish the holiday lie...in as little 10 minutes


Part Two: How to dump all your holidays hang-ups in the trash. Inside you’ll learn...

  • How to get out of your own head with the holiday baggage
  • The fool-proof way to identify unrealistic holiday expectations
  • How resilient divorced women give holiday expectations the finger...without being bitchy


Part Three: How to reclaim the holidays for yourself. Inside you’ll learn...

  • From lonely to joyful: The secret system for reclaiming the holidays under your own terms
  • You’re a Holiday Wonder Woman. How to bounce back if something goes wrong this holiday season
  • What to do when you don’t know what you want: how to find what you love in as little as 10 minutes


Part Four: The no-stress, no-drama way to setting boundaries with family during the holidays Inside you’ll learn...

  • The curse of The Good Girl: How society has trained you to be treated like a holiday doormat and what to do about it
  • The power of NO: How establishing boundaries with your family will save your sanity this year
  • How strong and assertive divorced women set boundaries during the holidays without feeling guilty...and how you can, too


Part Five: The easy and fun system for planning holiday goals that keep you focused, accountable, and excited for the New Year. Inside you’ll learn...

  • The ugly truth why holiday goals usually fail...and what to do about it
  • How to develop a Holiday Action Plan that keeps you stress-free, sadness-free, and full of joy...in less than 30 minutes
  • The four simple things that resilient women do to bring the holiday magic back after divorce


Click the link at the top of the page for instant access.


Your Bonus Gifts

Reserve your spot today and receive exclusive access to the Course AND your own private one-one-one holiday strategy session.

Free One-on-One Holiday Strategy Session (a $297 value)

During this one-on-one strategy session, we will:

  • Work together to identify your holiday loneliness, stress, and sadness triggers
  • Devise the fail-proof systems to neutralize those trigges
  • Reframe the holiday loneliness and negativity into confidence and excitement
  • Formulate your Holiday Recovery Action plan so you’ll be unstoppable this season, with the confidence you deserve.


Is Love the Holidays Again right for me?

You may be wondering if the course is right for you, and I get it. You’re worried about other craziness in your life, trying to figure out what you can do to distract yourself from thinking about the divorce and how things are different, wondering if the traditions you knew and loved are no longer a part of your life.

Whether this is your first Christmas alone or you’ve been divorced for a while, this course is perfect if you:

  • Wish you had extra support and encouragement during this time of year
  • Hate feeling lonely during the holidays
  • Want to create new holiday traditions for yourself but don’t know how
  • Want to build resilience and recovery quickly from any holiday heartache.

How to Love the Holidays Again is an easy-to-use online course that covers everything you’ve been stressing about this time of year. With the holiday course, you will:

  • Receive the proven Kick-Ass Holiday System I used to recover from my own holiday and divorce loneliness
  • Discover all the nasty secrets that nobody tells you about this time of year
  • Uncover the *real* reason your lofty holidays goals will fail...and what to do about it.


>>But this exclusive offer ends on Friday, November 22nd at 11:59PM.

So, if you’re ready, register at the top of the page and we’ll see you in the course.

Register now!


Frequently Asked Questions about the Course

As you know, this week we launched the ultimate holiday course.And many of you have emailed me with a few questions and concerns about the course.

So, check out the answers below!

I don’t have time for anything right now. How will I ever finish this course?

The course is online and at your own pace, meaning you can start it and pause it whenever you like. It’s entirely up to you! As long as you have a smart phone or computer with internet access, you can listen to the course whenever you want. In traffic, at work, in the gym, walking your dog, prepping dinner…whenever is convenient for you. And since you’ll have lifetime access, you can revisit and renew the material again and again, year after year.

Money’s tight. Can I do this on a limited budget?

I hear you! Money can definitely be tight during divorce. That why I made the course and holiday support group only $197...which includes your free private coaching session AND unlimited email and text support from now until the New Year.

How different is the course material from your free material?

As a dedicated reader to the blog, you know how helpful my emails are. With this course though, we go much deeper. There are 5 lessons in the course, each one from 20-35 minutes long. You can start them, stop them, and return to the lessons as much as you’d like. Even better, there are fun and super-helpful exercises at the end of each lesson that guaranteed to work for you. Plus, course enrollment also gives you free access your own private holiday coach…available only to members who purchased the course.

I’m nervous about my privacy. How will I know if my information is protected?

Your privacy and comfort are my top priority. Your exclusive access to the online course means that *no one* will know that you’re taking the course. It is not a group course. It is totally discreet. 100% confidential and 100% private. The same goes for your private coaching session and your private email/text support.

Is my credit card information safe?

Absolutely! Your payment information is 100% protected through SSL encryption technology.

What can I do if I have more questions?

Email me anytime at [email protected]

Ready for a holiday season that kicks ass this year? Then register above. See you there!

Love the Holidays Again closes November 22nd at 11:59pm

This is a quick reminder that Love the Holidays Again, my new course on how to ditch your holiday baggage, set boundaries without guilt, and celebrate with strength, joy, and confidence, closes at 11:59pm.

Join Love the Holidays Again by clicking the link above.

If you’re 100% content with your holidays as a divorced woman, no problem.But if you’re still struggling with this time of year, and dreading the loneliness whenever you see happy couples together--this course is for you.

Love the Holidays Again gives you the skills of thriving divorced women who’ve reclaimed the holiday season for themselves---in spite of their painful divorces and traumatic past holidays.

And not just holiday to-do lists, like “turn on Christmas music...make hot cocoa,” but the deep psychological traits that separate you from 99% of the divorced population.


You’ll Discover:

  • What thriving women do to banish their holiday baggage--and how you can do the same--starting TODAY
  • The #1 thing you can do to set boundaries this season...without feeling guilty
  • How to develop a Holiday Action Plan that keeps you stress-free and full of joy...in less than 30 minutes
  • How to bounce back after any holiday set-back...even when the odds are against you
  • The 4 simple things that resilient women do to bring the holiday magic back after divorce

And, as always, you’re covered by my 30-day money-back guarantee.

You’ll have an entire month to decide.That’s enough time to work through the entire course--TWICE. Then, if you don’t love it, just email me and you’ll get every cent back.

Just remember, it closes at 11:59pm the 22nd. And doors won’t open again until next year.

Join Love the Holidays Again by clicking the link above.

Warmly,

Martha


P.S. Lots of divorced women are hurting through the holiday season, struggling with the loneliness, sadness, and grief---only to have the vicious cycle repeat itself every single year. Don’t let that happen to you. Build the skills that nobody can take away from you.


Try Love the Holidays Again today.



Your Instructor


Martha Bodyfelt
Martha Bodyfelt

Martha Bodyfelt is a CDC Certified Divorce Coach® and divorce expert for The Huffington Post, The Good Men Project, and Psychology Today. Her website, Surviving Your Split, shows divorced women how to get their groove back after divorce so they can regain their confidence and resilience.




Frequently Asked Questions


When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.

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